A listening practice: One Thing Better, Hollister Thomas

One Thing Better is a weekly series featuring very cool creators I’m impressed with, in a one-question interview format.

It’s a simple premise. Each week someone will answer The Question. 

This week Hollister Thomas brings forth a compelling message for our times. One that you might think she was born to, as a photographer.

Hollister’s answer blows me away. Unlike some of the previous One Thing Better responses, in this instance I have no experience with this kind of practice. And yet I’m sorely in need of it.

Let’s let Hollister tell us about it . . . 

The Question:

What one thing have you been doing recently that’s making your life better?

Hollister Thomas:

There is one new and very precious thing I’ve been doing fairly consistently for just over one year. I have a listening partner  a friend who lives in the Midwest. 

We took a course on the enneagram together and were paired up to share a weekly listening space. (Actually, I requested her!)

We alternate weeks for sharing. 

These weekly calls start with sitting in silence for as much time as needed. Then the sharer begins sharing whatever their heart begs them to share while the other listens empathically with no judgment and no solutions. 

I have had many profound inspirations and incredible shifts in heart and mind. To have someone listen to you without judgment … I mean truly no judgment is like nothing else. 

And then to do it in return for them might be even more amazing. You tap into a heart space that reveals pure unconditional love … and don’t we all need a little more of that!!

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Hollister Thomas is one half of one of my favorite-most couples in the known multi-verse. For their joyful and spirited approach to life, for their unschooling, for their daring, for their easy laughter. We catch up with them every now and then when they blow into town — Ann and I love hearing their stories of growth and personal transformation. 

You can find Hollister and her husband at the 30 Days of Yes Program for Couples.

For you 

Evan Griffith
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If you feel inspired to answer the One Thing Better question, please email me your response to TheWorldIsFreakyBeautiful (at) gmail (dot) com.

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